If he was completely happy with you then he wouldn't need to go on a dating site. My last girlfriend kept a profile on a dating site which she would go on at times whenever I was not with her. When I told her that I found out about it, she immediately was defensive by saying, "You are stalking me! She later told me that she just went on that dating site to answer surveys. She went back on that dating site not long after dumping me through text messages on my old cell phone two years ago.
My boyfriend is always on dating sites whenever he goes online. Is he still looking?
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We started seeing each other initially as friends — we have a lot of shared interests — and then one day he jumped on me and the relationship became increasingly physical. So far, so good — until we were both looking at something on his laptop, and a dating website came up as one of his most visited sites. I asked him about this, and told him that while I had no wish to pry into his personal life, the question for me was whether he was looking to keep his options open for now, it being early days. A quick Google search on his user name revealed another three, all with very recent logins. At that stage I was ready to end the relationship and leave him to it. It is true that lots of people set up online dating profiles without ever taking action or using them to meet someone.
Why is he still checking dating sites?
You must chill online dating edition. Back away from the boombox, Dobler. The first was when I was 20 and lasted seven months and the other was a on-and-off disaster that ended a few months ago.
Originally Posted by naomii Should I just flat out tell him that I want to be exclusive since we've known eachother so long? I feel like we should be exclusive while we get to know eachother. Or should I give it a little bit longer? Originally Posted by naomii Also, any advice on how to stop myself from looking at his dating site? It does drive me crazy, but looking at it reminds me that something isn't right that i really need to address with him and that he perhaps isnt as serious about us as he leads on..