Often, this separation occurs after a time of silence between you and the narcissist. The hoovering generally happens when you are not making contact, and at times when you are trying to get on with your life. If you are the one trying to contact and make-up, it is more likely that the narcissist will devalue and discard you. If this is not the case, it is because the narcissist still wants something from you — possessions, money, status, contacts or sex because other sources are momentarily low. Such is the incredible brain-fry when you are stuck in the throes of narcissistic abuse.
The Narcissist Dislikes Being Ignored
Narcissist, Narcissism And Marriage - Why Narcissists Marry
Therefore, the question remains. Why would a Narcissist get married? In addition, to wondering why a Narcissist gets married, I am often asked why they rush into relationships, and why they rush into marriage. As for example, here is a question that was presented on my support forum. Why would a Narcissist rush into marriage? If Narcissists are afraid of intimacy, and afraid of commitment, why and what would posses them to want to marry you so soon?
Melanie Tonia Evans
February 16, at 8: He told me he was separated at the time, only to discover he went back to his wife. I ended it a few times, only to have him pursue me.
July 27, at My character has been dismantled and assassinated over and over again. I ended up on Prozac when I realized my devastating fatigue was not severe anemia as I had thought. Within weeks I had one screaming-clear picture: I realized my daughters, the ones I stayed in the marriage for, were being harmed.