Most people who don't have any social skills will hide behind the internet and try to pick up that way. So you not only get social incompetent but you also get child molesters, weirdo s and unattractive people all hiding behind the computer so they don't have to show their face in person. It's alway safer to meet someone face to face even in a club. So don't make internet the source of your dating lifestyle but make it the last resort.
Not an easy task for a fortysomething female. Because if you find a man made of relationship material, you will eventually have to fess up. Keeping lies dangling between you and your new guy is not a good way to begin a love connection. Lying is a big deal and some people take it very seriously. Even a small lie might seem big to someone who put their trust in you. Take your time and be choosy.
Women rated seven parts of their body, including their hips and thighs, and four categories for their face, including complexion. It is really nobody else's business. If there is a chance it is based on fraud it is simple enough to get someone verified in a respectful way.
I myself have never tried one because of the same beliefs you had I am 28 and have NEVER had a girlfriend, but I don't like the idea of hooking up for pathetic blind-dating. However as my friend put it when I asked him: However, I still want to try and date women that I know from at least some context.